MenAreTrash. When a woman gets sexually assaulted, the first thing that goes into the minds of the people is what was she wearing?, when we have information on the type of clothing she had on we can determine if she asked for it. We proceed to wait for information about the time period she was […]

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Boys will be boys.

I recently learned about the 16 days of Activism Against Gender based Violence which runs from every November 25th to the 10th of December created by the first Women’s Global Leadership Institute and the WHO. I also learned about the #HearMeToo movement which was started by Laila Johnson Salami and We Rise Initiative which will […]

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Colourism and SkinBleaching

Skin bleaching. The use of substances, mixtures or physical treatment to lighten, brighten, depigment and bleach skin colour. The existence of bleaching and Eurocentric beauty standards encouraging skin bleaching isn’t a new trend nor observation. Skin bleaching has existed and developed for quite sometime for the business to be referred to as a “billion dollar […]

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Toxic Masculinity

Toxic masculinity. I have been thinking about writing this piece for a while and I wondered whether or not if I was doing the right thing in a wrong way or just doing the right thing my way. One thing I’ve discover is that the battle of manhood is dependent on how violent a man […]

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Whew… Chile PurityKulture

We all know just how much of a lie sexual purity is and for those who don’t know, sexual purity is a lie created for women to hop on. There’s nothing wrong with not wanting to have sexual intimacy until you find the right one and you believe you’re going to spend your lives with […]

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Do you know what concerns me the most about people who try to defend what they think is the right thing is that they end up doing it the wrong way and very much embarrassing themselves in my space. I often generalize, I mentally refer to myself as the queen of generalization lol, and of […]

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As AWoman

I refuse to dim the light that radiates from within me. I refuse to knock down other women to gain men’s attention. I will try to help fix other women’s crowns when it has fallen off because empowered women empower women. I refuse to be a slave to my gender by fighting for women who […]

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